so glad you came up with a good solution. I think it's wonderful that you are engaging a youngster in sewing and quilting--they truly are our future! And as a g-parent of 3 that have a hard home situation due to my DIL mental illness and my son's having to work many hours to support them and not living near us, I certainly appreciate that you are reaching out to this girl and provide a refuge for her where reasonable ways to deal with situations are being learned plus kindness and compassion--wish I could hug you!