I only give premade quilts and always ask if someone wants one. Then I let them choose from what I have. Sometimes they say no. Doesn't hurt my feelings at all and much better than spending all that time and money on something I don't like. I'll never forget seeing an old high school friend after several years. I was in her town at a quilt show. I put my quilts in the trunk of the car, we talked and chatted and laughed. I never had the chance to offer her a quilt. During our conversation, she asked what on earth I would do with a bunch of old quilts. They were her MIL's, now deceased. I had a good chuckle over that one. Thank goodness, I didn't present her with a quilt.