It truly is "the thought that counts not the gift". It is easy to say but a challenge to follow. When I receive gifts that are not my style or not to my liking, I practice my gratitude because I care more about the gift giver than any gift they might give me.
I try to make it easier on the recipients of my "surprise" handmade gifts, by saying I enjoyed thinking about them as I created their gift but if the gift doesn't fit or suit their house, I am not offended and please pass it on to someone that can use the gift. I have a few friends that will never receive handmade gifts from me because they are not able to appreciate the amount of time I spend in creating the gift.... they get purchased gifts and everyone is happy.