If you made a quilt (something relatively "important") for someone - and the someone did not like it -
I am going to assume that the someone showed the proper appreciation -
Would you prefer that
1) the person tell you that it is not their style and return it to you
2) put it on a shelf and not use it
3) donate it to goodwill or put it in a yard sale
4) donate it to a fundraiser
5) use it for a furniture moving pad
6) give it to someone that loves the item