Just today, my MIL said she didn't want a lap quilt from me b/c a friend's daughter had already made her one. Don't know if I'm pissed or relieved. Maybe she thinks I'll need to buy fabric and she's worries about that b/c I'm unemployed. I'd have just sifted thru my stash to find some bright pretty fabrics and then made it. I may make one anyway only send to my mom and not MIL. Her loss.