You are all so nice - I probably would have told her "oh, well....at least I'm not a snob like you are"! That being said, I totally agree that everyone may have their own definitions but they don't matter. Unless there is an official designation somewhere that we don't know about it is just their opinion anyway and there will always be as many opinions as their people. In my book, anyone who works on and/or creates quilts may call themselves a quilter. Don't let this bother you at all and consider yourself by whatever title you feel fits. "Upside Down Table" works for me anytime!