Suern3 Excellent reply and suggestions. I find that solid colour flannel always looks 'used' after washing. I have stopped using it if at all possible. I have found that it often has a looser weave and shrinks more than other flannels too.
But Pal, I'll bet your friend would love to have something for the new baby at her house.
I have a flannel baby quilt that I made just to try (and discard) a pattern. It turned out ummmm....less than lovely. But it has been thru two grand-babies and a grand-puppy at my house. Perfect for throwing on the floor for tummy time or a quick diaper change, and also perfect for padding the Pak'nPlay on overnight visits. The grand-puppy now thinks it is her permanent bed at Nana's house!