I once joined a Guild.....one that had a stellar reputation, but try as I might, I just could not fit into any of the cliques. Everyone was nice and there were lots of workshops that I participated in. I did everything I was expected to do and more...but still felt like an outsider.....so....after a year, I dropped out and I don't think anyone cared....at least, I didn't hear from anyone......I'm a lone quilter too.....do make quilts now for charities with what I have stashed.