I refuse to be suckered by every one who wants a quilt. I make quilts for those I love, not for someone I would not recognize if I met them on the street. You are not obligated to make quilts for anyone at any time for any reason, Keep that in mind and then tell them nicely that you already have a list a mile long and you will put them at the bottom and if their name ever comes up, you will make one for them. Or same the time and just say "NO"! It's a wonderful word.