Stop and think. Your dad is probably very proud of you for making such a nice quilt. He wouldn't want you to miss the money that the project cost you. Some men have a way of saying things that tend to hide their real feelings. (some women too). Your dad is proud of you and really wants the quilt. He thinks it's wonderful enough to sell. Just insist that you made it especially for him, because you really want him to have it. Before long, he will be all wrapped up in your love. (And he'll be showing it off every chance he gets.)