I am sorry that you are disappointed in your daughter's response to the pretty quilt that you made for her.
However - as hard as it is for some of us to understand - not everyone likes quilts - does not matter who made them.
I think it would be okay to ask for it back - and maybe ask her if there is something else that she would prefer (in $ range). Or even why she is not excited about it. Can't change it or fix it if you don't have a clue as to what the problem is.