Madamekelly, It sounds as though Mom might be trying to catch a break at your expense. When I am in this situation (which is quite fequently), I try my best to bite my tongue, knowing that they won't live with me forever. Sometimes a blessing can be disguised as a curse. I choose my battles wisely and try to let things roll off my back. When I finally explode, things can get ugly. I really do love them with all my heart, but sometimes a girl needs boundaries.