I have had such good luck using Amway Prewash
(
http://www.amway.com/Shop/Product/Pr...pwsID=BestLife)
and then immediately wash in your washer, adding All Fabric Bleach (
http://www.amway.com/BestLife/Shop/P...?itemno=117774)
to your regular laundry detergent.
And no, I am not an Amway distributor and have nothing to gain by recommending these products.
I've gotten out red lipstick on my new leather seats in my car, coffee spilled on my new white carpet, red wine spilled on a new Tommy Bahama silk shirt (only used spray wash and sent off to the cleaners), and countless other success stories by using these products alone, or in combination of both.
I wish you luck, and let us know if you find something that works. We can all learn something new.
Whoops....see that you already solved the problem! Good for you.