Gail, so sorry about the loss of your sister. I think 2 weeks to clear out her sewing stuff is short, but my step MIL had given my FIL's clothes away before the funeral arrangements were made! So that when I asked to do a memory quilt, there were almost no items to use.
In my quilt journal, I list which of the kids gets each of the quilts I'm made & kept. And my DDsews and quilts,so she will get all the rulers, fabric, etc. Don't know about my long arm--both my kids kind of like it!