Sometimes hobbies are just hobbies. I love to buy fabric and think about what I will make with it. There is just not enough time!
The snobs that think they know better are just ignorant. I doubt they would treat a man with all his fishing "stuff" (boat, tackle, poles, lures) the same.
My kids know I spend a lot but know it's a pleasure to me. They seem to be fine with it. I hope they don't turn on me when it's time to downsize!