I think we all have to stop and remember that we are all merely "human", none of us are perfect and never will be. The only "man" who ever walked this earth and was perfect was Jesus Christ himself, and they nailed him to a tree. We just have to learn to forgive ourselves for being human. The best we can do on this earth is strive for excellence (not perfection--we'll never each that exalted state). My Mom always told me to just do the best that I can do, and not worry about anything else; all we can do is try -- that's all a mule can do! Jeanette