I prefer mine to be just clean smelling, or have a very light scent.
I use liquid Ecos detergent-from Costco, and am very pleased. A light scent.
I use white vinegar as a natural fabric softener.
My laundry has no scent when done.
I find most detergents and softeners have way too much scent. I don't even like the "unscented" stuff-has a very chemical smell to me.
For my quilting fabrics, I use Best Press in the Caribbean scent, or Magic Brand Sizing.