Oops, sorry for the misunderstanding, Givio. But super glad that no one in your family has been murdered!
I do have a good friend who's sister was murdered. She lived alone and gave lawn mowing and yard trimming jobs to a vagrant sort of guy who was mentally unstable, just trying to help him out and give him something productive to do. Well, he came around one day demanding money from her (robbing her) and when she refused to give him any he shot her! And she had helped him so much. It was a terrible tragedy and my friend and her family has never gotten over it.
Yes, we are blessed! There is so much pain and suffering all around us. Every day we are vertical is a good day!