Lv2sew2011 I currently have your top and I plan to add incredible things to it. I believe you have mine at this point. You will not hurt my feelings if you pass it along without adding. You have more pressing matters than our tops and I wouldn't feel slighted in the least to have you skip or just do what you can. You have my sincerest condolences on the loss of your mother and I will pray for you to have the strength you need to care for your father for as long as you can. Please don't risk your health by putting his needs completely ahead of your own. God Bless you and your family from my home to yours. Anna