Kass, sure hope your DH is feeling better now. That had to hurt.
Terri, take care of your self. Don't push on anything and just give yourself time to get better.
As for Thanksgiving, I'll be going to my DD#1's in-laws for dinner that afternoon. We're all just one big family anyway. I'm taking potato salad, pumpkin pies and fresh cranberry relish. I know we're having ham and a shrimp boil. Everybody just brings their favorite dishes. We'll use fine disposable china. I'm all for making it easy on everybody. Football afterwards.