I am so sorry to hear about your Aunt. I am sure it was a very difficult situation and a tough desicion to make. She must have been a very strong and determined woman. Bess her soul.
On the day we did our transplant there was another one going onbetween twin sisters and it didn't work. The organ was lost and had to be removed within hours of surgery. I felt horrible. There were Jorge and I, not blood related, walking the hallways to recover, and on the other hand twin sisters, walking around as well, because after all, they had the surgeries happened, trying to recover as well. They were bitter and asked the nurses to allow them to walk around only if Jorge and I were not. They didn't want to see us. I didn't blame them.