I know the pain. Last year I made a quilt for my niece who wAs due to have the first girl in that generation. The girl is six months old, and they have moved up here to Oregon from Texas, and I noticed they did not have the quilt with them. I asked where it was, and was told very blase'ly that her friend liked it so she gave it to her! Grrrrrr! (She did ask if I would teach her to sew, since she is living here now. My revenge with be to have her make the same quilt for her cousin who is expecting....lol!)