I'm sorry to hear your feelings were hurt and I understand why. Tell him he hurt your feelings if you think that will mean anything to him. In the alternative, accept that he didn't mean to hurt your feelings and he was (temporarily) a clod. It's your bliss, not his.
Originally Posted by
sewbizgirl
...And speaking of hubbys... The other night after I had been enjoying quilting most of the day he said to me, "I don't know how you can do that all day, every day." Like I was obsessed. First of all, I do NOT sew all day every day. Most days, yes, but never all day. A few hours here and a few there... His comment was so negative that I just couldn't shake it off. What does he care? Funny but I didn't feel like sewing for a day or two after that. It just knocked the wind out of my sails. I just don't get why he needed to make that comment about something I was happy doing. I've been sewing for decades! What do you do when someone you love disparages how you choose to spend your time?