Laquita, I've been following your unfortunate series of events this holiday season and offered up healing prayers for you. You're apparently undergoing your Steel Magnolia test! I have never had you as a swap partner but have participated in the same swaps as you have and know that you send out nice packages and are a good swapper.
I admire your courage and grace in handling this situation here publically and am sure that we all understand and sympathize. Sending you and your family best wishes for a Happy and Healthy New Year!