I have been a member of my local guild off and on. I was in a bee a long time ago...but I was busy and it was a day time group. I rejoined and started going to a different bee. The ladies were nice...and I enjoyed them, but I kept forgetting to go! Seems I don't like evening meetings. I have a couple non guild groups that fit me for right now. I guess I am a solitary quilter mostly. Funny I didn't think of myself that way! Find what fits you...