Some foster kids in my area that have reached 18 will come to speak to many of the groups that help the foster kids. They all say when they left their foster families they left with nothing from the family but clothing and usually those stuck in a bag, even those that were given a nice bag! Not one child said they would ever go back to visit any of the foster parents they had. This really put the foster care in a bad light in our community. DCHS here isn't co operative with the groups that want to help either. We still keep donating and helping.