My breakthrough moments have been many,lol. The major one was when I realized that I would never be able to do custom quiltwork on the longarm and be good at it. I practiced and practiced to the point of no loner enjoying what was supposed to be enjoyable, not to mention all the stress that came with a "perfect" quilt plan and then quilting it. If I were younger then it might be something to pursue with a passion but I don't have time for that. Now I am good at edge to edge quilting and pantograms so that is what I do. I also have no desire to have quilts judged, I am my own judge. I quilt for me and do not need accolades or praise to do what I enjoy doing. (No bragging here at all, just making a point.... but I do quilting well.)