Bizarre AM. First let me say normally I live a very quiet life. Doorbell rings at 6:10 this morning, dh answers and charges upstairs Terri wake up their is a policeman at door for you. Ha what, scared me instantly awake. Thought OMGG what happened to one of my kids. Not my kids thankfully. He informed me my ex dh From 36 years ago yes from 36 years ago had committed suicide and my kids were his next of kin and would I notify them and ask one to call the coroners office. Called my 4 kid's and ex SIL. Even though he had abandoned us I'm proud to say my kid's are stepping up to the plate and taking care of his arrangements. Don't know how police linked him to me, they said he did leave a note so who knows maybe he put my address on it.