When my hubby and I were first married, he reorganized the kitchen. I went out while he was at work and reorganized all of his tools. Two days later the kitchen magically was put back where I originally had them. And then he reorganized his tools.
Lessons learned. His space. My space
Now we just make "suggestions" and if it happens it happens, but if it doesn't there is a reason and we keep our fingers off each others' things.
Hehehehe. Will be married 29 years this fall!