Leta, that is actually my concern. I don't like DH's cooking and he apparently isn't very trainable. I also don't mind the cooking/like it in fact. He has a few dishes he fixes well but that gets old real fast. lol
I have to look at this from a non-selfish angle. Pat worked hard and he deserves to be retired. End of story (as I'm hyperventilating in my own little world).
Keeping my fingers crossed for a successful transition into a fitting new job.