My husband has four sisters, 3 older than him and one younger. they do not exchange gifts for b'days or christmas. the youngest is a brat. my husband carves and every year he sends each sister a carved snowman for christmas. each year it is a different design. his 3 older sisters always call thank him and tell him much they like it. he has been doing this for 9 years. anyway the brat never calls or says thank you. we always find out she got it from one of the other sisters and we know she likes it becuase she tells the sister she does. i will never call her to ask, if she doesn't get thats too bad.