I may end up just a cheerleader for you all who working on a project. My mom passed away 2.5 weeks ago and I haven't had the energy or motivation to do much above the minimum around here. Just helping my sisters help my dad with his
needs and wants (clearing out his basement/organizing what he wants to keep so he can move stuff out of his storage unit into the basement and thus free up almost 200 bucks a month (which he's been paying the past 3 years---oy). I am taking people's advice and being kind to myself, getting rest, not pushing to do what really doesns't need to be done.