I've always known pacifiers to be binkies.
I did a Google search and came up with pacifiers too.
I have heard of some kids calling them "silkies" because of the "silky" binding on it.
Other than that, I can't help you, but to say....
If I were to make a personal quilt/blanket for a baby, if I were to put ribbon or something on it, I would make sure it was sewn down really well. Wouldn't want it coming up and baby sucking/choking on it.
Maybe ask your friend to write down EXACTLY what she is wanting. Might help you to decide how/what to make.