Sometimes, Joan, people only trust those they are closest to with their anger. Maybe she doesn't really want to go home. I'm sorry you are having to deal with all this, but it seems like you are the one everyone leans on in your family. Sometimes they forget that you need to lean on someone too. Glad you spilled. Praying for restoration in your relationship with your cousin. I hope I have someone who will take as good care of me when I'm 92, Lord willing. ❤️