Just wanted to put my two cents in. I am one of those that hasnt sent it yet, life got in the way big time and will catch up. No one knows what it is like until you walk a mile in their shoes. I also was in a quilt group and had a secret sister that never sent me a thing, later find out that she was on her death bed boy did I feel bad. Later had another one and she was fantastic so things happen good and bad and if you feel bad send something to one of those that didnt get anything, that is what happened to me. It made me really think about things. Secret sister it is on its way Will explain at the end