thanks jlt, I think I will do that. I just looked at the list about 2 hrs ago. 3 of the people on the list, I've never seen. about 10 I only see at the parties. I was told that some women join to be a part of things and like having the lunches to go to, even though it's only a few times a year. One woman, doesn't even like to quilt!! What is she there for, I've asked. to go to lunch was the answer.