I'm actually a mix of frugality and extravagance. But it's a comfortable mix for me. I don't buy what I can't afford. I don't like debt.
What I really don't like is seeing a person who puts money above all else. (cheap,miserly etc) That would be hard for me to deal with. You have to enjoy life and sometimes it involves money.
Everyone has to do what works for them. I'm just glad my husband and I are on the same page
