So far I have written down these suggestions for permanent and washable glues:
Aleenes Ok to Wash it, Jewel it,(yngldy stated she "used both on several washable items, it has been years with very frequent washings, and the projects are still intact.") Becky's Crafts stated "Fabric Fusion". It doesn't make the fabric stiff, but holds really well and dries clear." Peckish has tried Beacon Fabric-tac.
As always, your tips are appreciated. And Peckish is right....the quilt is not for a baby.