I am sorry your having surgery but honestly this is a ceramony of love, not getting into anything pretty? DONT BE SILLY. Its not about what you wear, shoot those kids are "in love" remember that? Not .. loving eachother but. IN LOVE.. you could wear a potato sack and no one would recall it later. He loves you so just be happy and do not over do yourself. The day and event will take care of itself. Keeping it simple is ok. Be good to YOU and you will find you have that much more to offer with a smile than with tears of sweat and pain. Congratulations on this wonderful family event. Timing is not too good but life happens that way.