I have been teaching two of my grand-daughters to sew. I just let them use my extra sewing machines. Their interest changes so fast at this age I wouldn't get a new one for her. So if you have a extra sewing machine that's the one I recommend. Then give them some pretty fabric and start simple. Because the control issue is the hardest for them at first. I also drew lines on fabric and had them sew. When I thought they were ready we did other things like pillow cases, draw string bags, rice bags and some very simple doll dresses. I chose these things over a quilt because they can get the project done quickly and have something they made to take home with them that day. They are very pleased to show mom and dad what they made. I know you will have great fun sewing with them no matter what you chose.