I have gifted to family members (have to be mailed) and in several circumstances, have not even received a "thank you" or notification that they got it. Insure them and ask for notification of delivery, so I know they were delivered. But, I will continue to gift if it's something I want to make for them. Many of you have said that once it is given away, it is not our worry what they do with them. Sadly, many of mine end up in the closet, neatly folded and Hopefuly fondly remembered. To counter balance those recipients who don't thank me, I also donate many quilts to Project Linus. If I'm not getting a "thank you", I'll just send to strangers. At least in my heart, I'm thinking they are appreciative! But, one thing to remember......please don't let unappreciative people ruin your joy and passion of quilting, sewing for others, and "giving".