thank you Dear Ladies for your comments, all very honest and valuable.
so, I share my story with MDH, who has quite often very good suggestions in fabric selection, borders etc. He looked at the quilt and he likes it, then I put the quilt on our bed and it already looks so different and I started to like it. I looked at it for a while and a quilting pattern started to appear in my head. I am on my way to quilt it. I have coming in the mail several yards of wide backing, just white muslin. once the Thanksgiving is over I will start to quilt it. Thank you again and happy Thanksgiving to You all.