Lilrain, I thought it would be fun for you to let your partner know what you are looking forward to in the New Year. If you have a tradition of going out to dinner New Year's Eve, do you go to a house party or give one yourself, are you going to buy a new car, a new house, are you updating, a new grandchild, children getting married, winter sports or are you looking forward to spring and planting a garden. Doesn't need to be hard...just something you are looking forward to whether it's a real thing or a "wishful thinking". Hope that makes it easier. Anybody else with some ideas??