Ekuw - All these stories about people who received quilts and "disrespected" the gifter. Really? Once you gift the quilt you're done
I think for some people it's how the gift is disrespected. My sister raved about how gorgeous the quilts I make are, and chose three patterns, and I bought the fabric, made the quilt, etc. and then she used them for her cats??? There was never any discussion about them being used for the cats. I certainly didn't expect them to be hanging on the walls, but they are so covered in cat hair and being clawed by the cats that they are destroyed. To me, that is disrespectful.