When my sister passed away 4 years ago, we were not able to deactivate her account. One sister was really troubled by this, but I don’t mind the birthday reminders. A friend passed away several years ago and her sister has intentionally kept it active and posts messages to her dearly departed regularly. I think I’d like mine deactivated. I keep many usernames/passwords in ‘Notes’ on my iPad. Kids know where to find it and pw to the iPad. I even keep some of theirs there. This was really good info about beneficiary! I shared with my DD, sitting next to me since she’s home for Thanksgiving.