Oh my goodness...
how many times in the past have i let myself be talked into something? __
(put any number in that blank.)
now,
how many times have I been sorry about letting myself
be talked into something? __
(put the SAME number in this blank that you put in the first one.)
The point is - you have had this lady in your home before and you KNOW what that was like.
Does she have a weapon on you?
Can she have you arrested if you don't let her stay?
So, why would you even consider saying anything but, NO?
You don't have to give her an explanation.
Nope, sorry. Shut the door, or put down the phone.
People that hope they get help in the future, will try to put good will in their bank account with people.
She didn't do that when given the chance.
So, if you let her back in, just bc you worry about what ppl will think you will get what you are worried about.
Why aren't those ppl taking her in?????
Bc they know, and so do you. :wink: