I feel exactly the same. So far, I have been lucky in that my quilts have been well-received by those for whom they were especially made. I love to quilt, and I, too, make quilts for those in need; I've made quilts for the Honor Flight program for veterans, but not individually (yet) for the QofV program, although that's part of my quilting group's endeavors. I still don't have a quilt for myself, but I have a log cabin I plan on making for myself in January --but it could turn out that it will call to me to give it to someone -time will tell! No matter - the creating and the giving is what it is all about; if a quilt needs a home, it will find one...