When I give handmade things away it is with no strings attached.
IMHO there is nothing wrong with using a quilt as a beach blanket, on the sofa (I have two on mine right now), hanging up for all to see and more. If it does not suit your décor, give it away, use it for the dog, although if you ask I will make your dog his own quilt, mine have three, let the kids or grandkids make a blanket fort. Wrap yourself in it as you roast marshmallows over a campfire, use it to keep warm while you watch the kids play hockey, or fold it up to sit on, those hockey bleachers are hard.
Keep it in the trunk of the car, on the boat or in the RV. Use it as a tablecloth, privacy screen or window covering, once I gift it, I have no say in the use.