Working in a prison for 30 years Ive been called a lot worse than "Joan" LOL...my twin brother is John and when we were really young we had new neighbors and their two kids were Joan Marie and John Alan...It was confusing at first but I became "joanie" and she was always Joan Marie.. John Alan chose Alan and to this day its remained the same. When they talk about John T. I forget who they are talking about because he will always be Alan. He even preached at my moms funeral. a Lot better than the names some of the prisoners give you!
