Thanks so much everyone - if she likes it as much as you all I shall be thrilled.
I've known the lady 20 years, she is amazing so much energy and "go" and a good friend - you would think when you meet her she is early 60s-ish. Very with it & fun loving and throwing a party for the birthday, which everyone is looking forward to, it will be lively for sure.
Red Garnet - yes she does love fine china, and has tea at the Ritz on UK visits!